Category: Life Skills
Published on Tuesday, 09 December 2014 00:00
Women have many varying preferences when it comes to men. Some like the sweet and gentle soul, or the goofy guy who never fails to make them laugh, maybe even the serious, career-oriented type, while others may like bad boys. But when it comes down to it, there are 5 irrevocable qualities in men that ladies typically look for.
Face it, no respectable, independent woman is going to be attracted to a man who doesn't know that stars are suns too. Intelligence is charming, but only when used appropriately. Being interesting and knowledgeable is great, but many men tend to let their ego get the better of them just because they seem to be a little bit smarter than the average Joe, and become an insufferable know-it-all. Being helpful and educating her in certain things she is unaware of is all fine and dandy, but you don't want to belittle her while doing so and make her feel stupid. Nobody knows everything (unless you are Bill Nye), so stop acting like you do.
You don't have to send cheesy messages or give flowers and chocolates to romance her. Being romantic is far simpler and easier than most men think. If you really like her, you would be affectionate and attentive towards her. Also, your activities together should be spontaneous and fun. Instead of the usual dinner and movie, maybe switch it up a bit every now and then and do stuff that the both of you don't usually do. The key is to do nontraditional and exciting activities together that will create lasting memories for the both of you.
Being classy is a huge turn on for the ladies. You don't have to always be in a suit, but it pays to look after yourself. Maybe get rid of dirt underneath your fingernails or the acne scattered all over your face. A little bit of proper grooming can go a long way. Class also ties in with chivalry; remember to be polite and respectful to ladies.
How you treat others is a reflection of how you would treat her. Just one good deed a day is another step to making the world a better place to live in. Being kind and helpful to people in need will show her that you are a caring person and someone worth getting to know and spending quality time with. No one wants to hang around douchebags who make fun of handicapped people and spurn the old.
5. Sexual Knowledge
Last but not least, is sexual knowledge. Don't act so surprised, women enjoy sex as much as men, just that not many let on to it. Don't get me wrong, you don't have to have a ton of experience to please a woman, you just got to know her desires. Don't be shy to ask her what she likes. By asking, you will give her the impression that you aim to please her too rather than just caring about fulfilling your own sexual needs. Watching adult films or reading up on sex is a great way to boost your knowledge about it too. Sex plays an important role in a relationship, intimacy helps in keeping the both of you attracted to each other even in the long run.